10 Steps to Support Your Child After a Diagnosis: What to Do Next

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Sinéad Caulfield

Family Wellbeing Consultant

10 Steps to Support Your Child After a Diagnosis: What to Do Next

Receiving a diagnosis for your child can bring a mix of emotions, relief, worry, or uncertainty about what comes next. This guide offers practical steps to help you navigate this journey with confidence and support.

  1. Take a Moment to Process

It is natural to feel overwhelmed. Allow yourself time to absorb the information and gather reliable knowledge. Every child is unique, and a diagnosis is just one aspect of who they are.

  1. Learn About the Diagnosis

Understanding your child’s condition can help you support them effectively. Reliable sources include:

  • Your child’s healthcare provider
  • National and local support organisations
  • Educational and medical professionals

  1. Connect with Professionals

Your child may benefit from a range of professionals, depending on their needs:

  • General Practitioner (GP) or Pediatrician – To discuss treatment options and referrals.
  • Specialists (e.g., Occupational Therapist, Speech and Language Therapist, Psychologist) – To support specific needs.
  • School Staff (Teachers, Special Educational Needs Coordinator, Teaching Assistant) – To create an individualised learning plan, IEP, IPP, 504 (these vary across the world).
  • Local Support Services – Many communities offer services for children with specialised needs.
  1. Consider Social and Sensory Support

Many children experience social and sensory challenges alongside their diagnosis. Support may include:

  • Social Groups – Programmes that help children build confidence, friendships, and social understanding.
  • Sensory-Friendly Activities – Access to environments that accommodate sensory sensitivities, such as quiet shopping hours or adapted play sessions.
  • Therapies – Occupational therapy or sensory integration therapy to support sensory processing and regulation.
  1. Communicate with Your Child

Your child may have questions or emotions about their diagnosis. Keep explanations simple and positive, focusing on their strengths and how they will be supported.

  1. Seek Support for Yourself and Your Family

You are not alone. Connecting with other parents or support groups can provide reassurance, advice, and encouragement. Consider:

  • Parent support groups (local or online)
  • Counselling or family therapy
  • Advocacy groups for your child’s condition
  • Respite services or well-being activities for family caregivers
  1. Explore Educational Support

If your child has learning or developmental needs, you may be entitled to additional school support. Speak with your child’s teacher about:

  • Education, Health and Care Plans (EHCPs) or Individual Learning Plans
  • Special Educational Needs (SEN) support in school
  • Reasonable adjustments for learning and testing
  1. Build a Support Network

Surround yourself with a team of professionals, friends, and family who can offer practical and emotional support. Remember, advocating for your child is a journey, and you do not have to do it alone.

  1. Focus on Strengths & Celebrate Progress

Your child is more than their diagnosis. Recognise their strengths and achievements and encourage their unique abilities. Celebrate every small step forward.

  1. Helpful Resources

Take time to gather helpful resources to support your family’s well-being. Local family resource networks and community organizations can offer valuable guidance, connections, and practical support. Online forums can also provide a sense of community, helping you learn more about the diagnosis, explore treatment options, and discover effective strategies.

Visit www.achievehealthandwellbeing.com for more information and resources.